The Daviess County Youth Soccer Association (DCYSA) will host its first-ever “Silent Sunday” on September 29 in an effort to reduce sideline pressure and enhance player decision-making.
This initiative comes after recent incidents at DCYSA games where parents, fans, and coaches displayed inappropriate behavior, according to DCYSA leadership.
“Silent days have been successfully implemented in leagues across the country for years,” the DCYSA board said in a statement via email. “We hope this allows players to focus on the game, trust their own abilities, and make decisions independently.”
While cheering and applause are encouraged, parents and fans are asked not to yell or coach from the sidelines this Sunday. The goal is to create a supportive environment that lets players enjoy the game without unnecessary pressure.
“Many leagues use silent days to address issues like referee abuse and the overemphasis on winning,” the statement said. “It’s about bringing the game back to being fun, like when kids played on the playground.”
The association also reminded spectators that referees, many of whom are between the ages of 13 and 17, should not be approached or argued with during or after games.
Guidelines have been set for spectators, coaches, and players. While younger teams may still receive some guidance, players U10 and older will be encouraged to make their own decisions during play. Coaches are advised to limit their instructions to before the game, halftime, and the bench.
Direct guidelines from DCYSA are detailed below.
Guidelines for Spectators (U6-U15M)
We ask all spectators to support and cheer for all players. Positive cheering after goals or great saves is encouraged. However, please refrain from coaching or shouting instructions at players, referees, or coaches. Specifically, avoid yelling while the ball is in play. Instead, consider alternative ways to show support, like clapping, shaking pom-poms, or twirling rally towels.
Guidelines for Coaches
U6 and Younger: These age groups still require significant guidance from their coaches, so these guidelines do not apply.
U8: While these players may have some experience, they still need a bit of direction. Coaches should limit instruction and use short, positional phrases such as “spread out,” “drop back,” or “move up.” Avoid direct instructions like “shoot,” “pass,” or “dribble,” as we want the players to make those decisions themselves.
U10 and Above: Coaching should occur before the game, during halftime, or with players on the bench. Coaches can provide tactical advice to bench players for when they enter the game, but during active play, refrain from giving any verbal or non-verbal instructions to those on the field. Instead, use this time to evaluate the team’s performance and identify coaching points for halftime or the next practice. Allowing players to communicate and make decisions on the field helps them learn from one another.
Guidelines for Players
On the field, players are encouraged to communicate, support one another, and provide direction to improve their gameplay. Substitute players should also engage from the bench by communicating with their teammates on the field, as they offer a different perspective. Being vocal from the touchline is a valuable skill that helps the team.
Important Note: Coaches should not dictate what players say. This communication should come from the players themselves as they watch the game and relay what they see to their teammates.
Guidelines for Referees
On Silent Sunday, referees are asked to give coaches a friendly reminder before the game, asking them to manage their sidelines in accordance with the Silent Weekend guidelines.
The DCYSA leadership expressed hope that Silent Sunday will promote leadership among players and give parents a new perspective on the game.
