In response to gun violence and community struggles, a group of local men is stepping up to mentor youth and adults alike, offering guidance on life’s challenges.
“The Real Cost” is an event set for 5:30-7:30 p.m. on February 23 at the Boys & Girls Club, at 3415 Buckland Square. The event, hosted by Corey Wilford, will feature testimonies from men who have faced adversity and emerged with lessons to share.
Speakers include Terrell Buckner, Ike Roby, and Gerald Young – three men with different backgrounds but a shared mission to uplift the community. Buckner spent more than 17 years in prison and wants to use his experience to deter young people from making the same mistakes.
“We’re trying to create a village where they can focus,” Buckner said. “It takes a village, and that’s all we’re trying to show people – let down the egos, put them aside, and come together to create change.”
Roby grew up surrounded by the same influences and said he was thankful to avoid incarceration. He now helps people build financial stability through credit repair and business development. He hopes to provide young people with tools for success beyond the streets.
“We can tell kids to change all we want, but we have to give them something to transform into,” Roby said. “My goal is to show them how to utilize business, credit, and be a member of society.”
The event, which came together in less than 24 hours, was in the discussion phase for the last few months but was expedited by recent violence in the community. Wilford, a former athlete and educator, said he felt compelled to help after seeing Buckner’s call for a venue.
“When I saw the post, I reached out to the Boys & Girls Club, and they were all for it,” Wilford said. “We need to change the narrative and show kids different options for their future.”
Beyond the testimonies, organizers hope to lay the groundwork for an ongoing mentorship initiative. They encourage adults and community leaders to attend and get involved.
“We’re not turning down any resources,” Buckner said. “If you want to help the community, we need you there.”
The event is free and open to all ages. For more information, reach out to Buckner on Facebook here.
